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How do I say 'I'm worried'?

The natural, measured worry statement — 有点 keeps it from sounding overly anxious.

我有点担心

wǒ yǒudiǎn dānxīn

I'm a bit worried / I'm concerned.

LITERAL

I am carrying worry.

WHAT IT REALLY MEANS

I'm a bit worried / I'm concerned.

WHEN IT FITS

Expressing concern about a situationAdmitting worry to someoneChecking on someone's wellbeing

Chinese worry vocabulary splits by the object of concern:

  • 担心 — worry about a situation. The object is usually an event or condition. 担心考试, 担心工作, 担心天气. This is the broadest worry word.
  • 怕 + clause — fear that something specific will happen. 我怕他会迟到 = I’m worried he’ll be late (I fear a specific outcome). This is more outcome-focused than 担心.
  • 不放心 — can’t let go of concern. Usually about a person or responsibility. A parent says 我不放心孩子一个人在家 (I don’t feel comfortable leaving the child home alone). It describes the inability to stop being concerned.

有点 before 担心 is the standard softening — same pattern as 有点紧张, 有点失望, 有点害怕. Dropping it (我很担心) makes the worry sound more serious. The choice between 有点担心 and 很担心 reflects the actual severity, not just politeness.

When someone is worried and you want to comfort them: 别担心 (don’t worry) is the standard reassurance. 没事的 (it’ll be fine) is warmer and more casual.

HOW PEOPLE ACTUALLY SAY IT

明天有考试,我有点担心。

Míngtiān yǒu kǎoshì, wǒ yǒudiǎn dānxīn.

I have an exam tomorrow — I'm a bit worried.

Pre-exam nerves
他还没回来,我有点担心。

Tā hái méi huílái, wǒ yǒudiǎn dānxīn.

He's not back yet — I'm getting a bit worried.

Worry about a person

CHOOSE BY SITUATION

我怕

wǒ pà

I'm afraid that...

Worry about a specific feared outcome — 我怕他会生气 = I'm worried he'll get angry

不放心

bú fàngxīn

Can't set my mind at ease / feel uneasy about.

Ongoing unease about someone or something you care about — 我不放心他一个人去